I came across this in the introduction to William Willimon’s Pastoral Theology. It’s written in the context of church life, but it has universal application:
We work within a culture of rugged individualists and fragmented communities. We are officially schooled in the notion that we are most fully ourselves when we are liberated, autonomous, on our own. We live under the modern myth that it is possible, even desirable, to live our lives without external, social determination. Ironically, that we think it desirable to live our lives without external, social determination is proof that our lives have been externally, socially determined by the culture of capitalist consumption. I did not on my own come up with the notion that I am a sovereign individual who has no greater purpose in life than to live exclusively for myself. Rather, this culture has formed me to believe that I have no other purpose in life other than the purpose I myself have chosen. The irony is that I did not choose the story that I have no purpose in life other than that which I have chosen.
The issue is not, Shall I be externally determined by some community of interpretation or authorization? This issue is, Which community will have its way with my life?
It’s a bit wordy, but nevertheless well said.